Has the magical and romance left your relationship?, the fire has gone out and left you frustrated?
I can assure you that you are not alone
If you have lived together with the same partner for a long time it can become confortable and stable, but this can often kill the spark that once made your relationship so special.
These creative and yet simple ideas will bring back that magic:
1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT
With some coloured pencils and paper, draw a brightly coloured couple, holding hands with a smiling sun in the sky above them. Then draw a couple of labels and insert their names next to where they stand, and then draw a nive heart shape and inside write the words “I Love You”. Finally get a brown business type envelope, place your drawing inside and create the address label with “Private and Confidential. Now you mail it with next day priority delivery so your partner will be there to receive it just when they are having a very busy day.
2. BE KIDS AGAIN
Try to bring back some childhood memories by taking your partner for a ride on the childrens swings in the local park
3. HAVE FUN WITH WATER
Go and buy 2 large water guns, organise a trip to the beach and when you get there get out the guns and hand one to your partner, then initiate a water fight.
4. MASSAGE WITH A SUBTLE DIFFERENCE
Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Try to find out if there was something that your partner always wanted when they were young. A good place to start would be with family members or a good friend. Once you know, then go and get it. Not only will they be delighted with the gift but you will get loads of brownie points for going to the effort to find out about their childhood longing for it.
6. CLOUD STARING
Organise a picnic in the countryside, and as you lay on the ground with your partner invite them to look up at the sky and the clouds.
7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Arrange to take a walk just before sundown, and using a piece of wood draw a heart shape in the sand, then cuddle your partner while you sit insde the heart to watch the sunset.
8. A MEAL OUTDOORS ON A SULTRY SUMMER’S NIGHT
Remark on the beauty of the sky, the stars and how well your parner looks this evening, and how muh you enjoy their company.
9. TELL YOU PARTNER HOW GRATEFUL YOU ARE TO HAVE FOUND THEM
Leave a note saying: “Thank you for coming into my life” with a single rose someplace where your partner will find it
10. ADD SOME SPICE TO YOUR LOVE MAKING
The most profound and guaranteed method to bring back the magic in the romance is to spice up your lovemaking. Why not surprise your partner with a special gift after you make love, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or simply ask your partner casually if they have a special desire for any new position before making love.
Passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other.